Before giving birth, I would sit in the co-pilot, hold my husband's hand, and chat with him. And during this time, we will always have endless topics to talk about. However, after giving birth, I mostly sat in the back seat and watched the child sleep and play. When I took the initiative to sit in the co-pilot, my husband always asked me to sit with the child. He was worried about the child and couldn't concentrate.
In the past, we would enjoy food and drinks slowly, and take pictures from time to time to enjoy the environment of the cafe. However, after having children, meals are always taken in turns. When my husband is eating, I take care of the children; when I am eating, it is my husband's turn to take care of the children. Because of this, we all have no free time to take pictures, and we only have children in our eyes.
Before the baby was born, every time I came home from work, the first thing my husband and I did was to turn on the TV and watch the news. The two would discuss the big and small things that happened today. After giving birth, I don't want my child to develop the habit of watching TV from a young age. Gradually, we both stopped watching TV.
I believe that many couples and couples, we all like to hug and sleep together when we sleep. However, after having a baby, I tend to look in the direction of the crib to make sure I don't fall asleep until the baby is asleep. When the child rolls over, I am more worried that the child will fall off the bed, and I will hug the child to sleep. When the child is one year old, the child will not sleep until the mother is with me, so I have to go to bed early, leaving my husband to watch a movie in the living room. Sometimes I also see my husband huddled in another corner of the bed alone, and it feels really desolate.
In the end, dating, marriage, pregnancy, and childbirth are the only way for every couple to go. I will wait for the children to grow up, and then the world with my husband!
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